I learned that complete strangers can have more patience because this isn't their relative or loved one and they haven't had months or years of coping with troubling behaviors. Caregivers are often at their wits end.
In Living on the Verge of Insanity, my recently released memoir, I describe the day care centers and nursing home staff and how they knew how to talk to Alan and keep him engaged all day until my return. I was amazed at their kindness and followed their lead in many situations. Seeing him through their eyes as a sweet, loving man helped me continue on with my efforts in a loving, open hearted way.
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